Saturday, 17 April 2010

Video of the Day

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5pC3VJA_CB8&feature=related


ณ ไรสส ทรหห ธ้ฟรสฟืกใ  ณะ ฟห แฟเก ทั สรอำ รืเ พำ ฟืก ณ ไรสส ฟสไฟห  เสฟ เสฟกก ฟะ ณ ฟท น ฟ พ หะพนืเพ ทฟืใ  ณ พั น ฟสไฟห กน ไฟ รห หะใ

ณ ไรสส ทรหห รห ยสฟแ  ณ นยำ ธฟหารื แนทำห ฟแ หนนื ฟืก พำหะนพำห ยำฟแ

ศนอำ นีพหำสด ฟสไฟหใ

Tuesday, 13 April 2010

Song of the Day

This is a 2 for video rock, block :-)
This one is how I feel.....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KNZH-emehxA&feature=fvst


This is the way I think she feels.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rDazrN4WcqQ

Saturday, 10 April 2010

Words of wisdom

Look up.

Look up.


I try everyday to be the best I can be.  I am flawed.  I am humbled by the pain I feel today and everyday since she kicked me out.  I miss my kids.

They love me and I love them, but now my ex has too much hate for me and she is trying to hurt me by hiding my kids from their father. 

Be careful.  Know that if you marry a foreign national this can happen to you as well.  Once she took them out of the USA then the rules changed. 

I hope not, but I am starting to think she knew this would be the case.  One of the last things she told me in person was, "My mum told me that when I leave you I will get the kids, and if you don't watch out I can make it so you can never see them again." 

I did not want to make things hard on her, I did afterall love her for over 10 years.  She is a good mum, but if I don't get to talk with my kids soon I will have to take legal action.  I have done the research and there are resources at my disposal.  She has a green card, but that can be taken away.  She can not think that it is a good thing to shut me out of my childrens lives.

My father once told me that he (having worked as a detective on custody cases) would never be surprised what a person going through the pain and anger of divorce would do.  Well, I never believed that my ex would do what her mum did to her dad so many years ago.

She said it was cruel that her mum tried to run away with her and her brother and she is right.  What her mum did and now what she is doing is cruel to me and our children who love and miss their father.

I pray that she comes to the decision on her own to stop this hate campaign, but I am willing to fight if I have to do so.  I have retained an attorney and she is confident that I will see my kids again soon.  I will start the fight in ernest in 10 days, if she has not come to her senses and stopped making this a war for our children's sake.

If you know her or me, reach out to her.  Let her know that everything is on the table.  I am willing to listen to any request, but only if I can talk with my kids.

They love me and I love them.

No matter what she thinks of me that fact will never change.

Never.

Remember this song?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fl6BiileOrg


I like it do you?

Email me your requests at hchrysanthou@hotmail.co.uk

Friday, 9 April 2010

Look for your lost children

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=giPPeJEBUqE&feature=related

Parents, don't give up on your children.  The video above is dedicated to all those lost children.

I wish my parents had not allowed me to be hurt for so long, I wish I could have run away.

I wish that people would accept me for me.

Love yourself and others will love you or they were probably best not in your life.

Don't throw away your love on those that don't want it.

Song of the Day

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jAlQ1cR6X9Q

A little request and dedication to my ex.  Enjoy :-)

Thursday, 8 April 2010

Video of the Day

http://www.youtube.com/user/onelazygooner24?feature=mhw5#p/f/1/emj1H65g00Q

1st feature article (Travel Magazine)

Starting to become more successful as a writer.  Maybe this will work out........

See attached 2 page layout for travel article to appear in 3 magazines.


Cheers,


J

http://www.ctepping.co.uk/

Tuesday, 6 April 2010

You say it best......

http://www.youtube.com/user/onelazygooner24?feature=mhw5#p/f/121/QjsjZWlRVvo

Video of the Day

Well, back home now or to a country much closer to home.

I remember this video being funny and well it was not, but still a good tune.

http://www.youtube.com/user/onelazygooner24?feature=mhw5#p/f/13/DBfTk6Unddk

Sunday, 4 April 2010

Video of the Day

http://www.youtube.com/user/onelazygooner24?feature=mhw5#p/c/7A490A44E6532688/11/dPN5lEIWyVw

A repeat, but it is how I feel right now.  I miss my kids and do not at all like them being hidden from me, but alas time is on my side.  One day they will understand.  They love me and I love them and no matter what is said that is untrue you can't take that away from them or me.


J

Saturday, 3 April 2010

Happy Easter Video of the Day

http://www.youtube.com/user/onelazygooner24?feature=mhw5#p/c/7A490A44E6532688/8/X-3gXet-ljs


Mia, Ollie, and Alyssa.  Daddy misses you.  I hope you have a great time and get some nice chocolates :-)

Love,

Daddy

Video of the Day

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZES3nJQYJok

Into the ocean end it all.  Goodbye Goodbye

I want to swim away, but don't know how.  Sometimes it feel like I've fallen into the ocean.  Let the waves come up and take me down.  Let the rain of what I feel right now come down, let the rain come down.  Into the ocean end it all, into the ocean end it all.

I thought of just your face.

Friday, 2 April 2010

If you want to travel soon, you might need to check this out.

http://pafamilylaw.foxrothschild.com/tags/traveling-out-of-the-country-w/

In case you need to go to a sunny island you need to make sure you don't violate laws.  Hope this is helpful.


As a seperated spouse I am having to learn all about having kids and having a combative ex.  I hope no one else has to go through this pain.

It sucks.


J

Video of the moment

Don't know why, but I find him fasinating and his music relaxing.  I hope it brings you peace as well.

http://www.youtube.com/user/onelazygooner24?feature=mhw5#p/c/7A490A44E6532688/10/qi5nTb-NRFU

Video 2 watch if ya like videos and stuff.

http://www.youtube.com/user/onelazygooner24?feature=mhw5#p/c/7A490A44E6532688/30/CSJXle3LP_Q

It's the little things that count

I miss.....

1)  Mia's laugh
2)  Ollie's hugs
3)  The sound of my new angel Alyssa learning the sounds of her voice.


I miss them so much it hurts.

Thursday, 1 April 2010

Hello Readers

Ever had the thing you loved the most taken away?

Well my soon to be ex has now hidden my kids from me.  Pretty scary tactic.  Outside humane treatment.  Well, at least it shows me her capacity for hate.  I had better hire a good lawyer.  Silly me thought we would be honest and fair with each other.

I guess she wants to fight it out properly no matter how many people she hurts.

I am not talking about me.  I know this will pass.  She can not keep the kids away from their father forever.  One day they will understand what has been done and she will have to answer their questions about 'why?'

I will not fight her.  I will not give up my rights as a father though.  So if you are an attorney specializing in custody issues please email me at hchrysanthou@hotmail.co.uk  I will need to find a good one to fight for me, because she has given us no choice.  We could have been fair and friendly, but I guess I am not worth treating fairly in her eyes.

I hope her hate keeps her warm at night.  I hope when she holds and kisses our wonderful children she realizes how lucky she is to have them with her. 

One time she told me she would 'never' keep the kids from me no matter what happend.  I guess that wasn't true. 

I would warn all men out their that it is a mistake to trust that you will be able to see your kids.  My ex has gone with lying as a tactic to keep them from me.  She and her brother have claimed that I 'threatened' them.  She has further claimed that I am dangerous.  I have no history of violence.  I am a pacifist.  I am new buddist that has learned how to let go of my pain as a child.

My reward?  She has no told me that she is going to in her words, "have my ass arrested upon entry into the USA or UK."  Well, I will fight any and all false claims and charges against my character.

I will not side by and watch my kids hidden away from me.

If you know her or the situation I am sure you have your own opinions about me.

That is fine.  I am past caring what others think about me as a person, but I challenge anyone to prove that I am not a loving father. 

I don't deserve this much hate, but I have to deal with it and I will.

So, last chance dear ol' birdie.  Do you really want this to be a fight?  Do you really think that is best for you, me, and our lovely children?

If so, please let me know so I can start fighting back.  You can only kick me so many times.  Especially when I am already on the floor begging you to be fair.

I await your decision. 

J

Video of the Day

http://www.youtube.com/user/onelazygooner24?feature=mhw5#p/c/7A490A44E6532688/8/X-3gXet-ljs
No further action.

I will not do anything or agree to do anything until the following happens.

1)  I speak with my kids.
2)  You withdraw your threats.
3)  You commit to never withdraw my children's contact with me again.  That is so wrong on so many levels.

Do you understand?

J